Top 5 Things You Need To Stop Doing – Part 2
Sometimes in life certain personal traits can get in the way of our goals- personal well being and self esteem. But its important we recognize those obstacles and overcome them and that’s what were going to be talking about today.
Alright you guys loved part one so here is part 2- lets get started on our list of the top 5 things you need to stop doing part 2
5. Needing Control
Now having control over you life is good. But being controlling and trying to control others is not. If you try to rule over everything youre going to be extremely unhappy.
Its going to turn you into a very tense person. A lot of the time things don’t go as planned- that’s just the way life works- we get a few curve balls every now and then.
And if your constantly trying to be in control and things don’t go your way then you will often feel sad- and disappointed. Having control is a very powerful and addictive feeling so its something we tend to holds on to.
But if you want to be the best you and be happy you need to learn to let things go. Can you guys play the frozen clip from 2:58- 2:06 I put a link in the story. Yeah take Elsas advice people.
4. Being ungrateful
This is something all of us do way too much. we take our health and lives for granted. The best way to be more content in your life is to be more grateful of what you do have. Gratitude brings in happiness. Being grateful will help you make better decisions and help you obtain success.
Its important to remember that even if you’re not yet where you want to be in life that you be happy for what you do have- and work hard towards your goals.
Always count your blessings. Most of us take having a roof over our head and a hot meal for dinner every night for granted. But this is something we need to remember to be grateful for because the sad truth is not everyone is able to have that.
3. Always right
No one wants an egotistical- arrogant- pompous friend. Also its important to remember no one is perfect. Now sure a lot of the time youre going to be right about things- but just as often your going to be wrong about things too.
And one of the worst things you can do is push your opinions on how to do something onto others. Sure some friendly advice might be nice. But if you persistently keep pushing your going to annoy a lot of people. Just because something is right for you doesn’t mean it will work for someone else.
Also if you think youre always right then that means everyone else is always wrong and when you think about it that’s pretty unlikely isn’t it?
2. Comparisons
its extremely easy to compare yourself to other people but that doesn’t mean you should. Theres always going to be some out there who you consider to be better then you.
Now while its great to gain inspiration from someone its not good to constantly compare yourself to other people. Comparing yourself to others is just counterproductive and harmful to your self esteem.
Successful people have the mindset that the only person they can compete with today is the person they were yesterday. You need to focus on yourself and how you can achieve your goals. Rather then comparing your life to another persons.
1. Negativity
Being negative is something that comes all to easily to people.We all have our bad days. People are usually negative when they are unhappy with their lives and so they attack others to make themselves feel better.
But you need to remind yourself that as easy as it is to be negative about something its just as easy to be positive. Also pointing out negatives in life is extremely counter productive.
If you have a negative attitude your life is going to be more difficult and less fulfilling then it should be. So the next time you realize your about to say something negative stop yourself and try to look on the positive side. And there you have it that’s our list of the top 5 things you need to stop doing part 2.
